In March of 2013, our life was turned upside down to say the
least. My husband urinated blood, so we
went to the hospital expecting to hear something as simple as “he has a huge
kidney stone”, but what we heard was something completely unexpected. My husband is a black belt, he eats right, exercises,
doesn’t smoke and drinks occasionally, all in all; he is a big strong healthy
man. But nonetheless, my husband was
diagnosed with Renal Cell Carcinoma (Kidney Cancer). He had two types, clear cell as well as papillary
cell. The treatment was a radical
nephrectomy (his entire kidney was removed) due to the cancer taking up most of
his right kidney. He was clear of cancer
for 14 wonderful months until it reared its ugly head again in May of 2014. We weren’t totally surprised when it came back,
although the news was crushing. After
his radical nephrectomy the doctors told us he had a 40 to 60 % chance of
recurrence. But being a positive person,
I thought for sure after a year had passed that he would be safe and we could breathe
easy. Today is October 19, 2014 and my
husband will be starting a type of chemo therapy called Interleukin-2 on the 20th,
tomorrow. His treatments are being done
at Duke University Hospital in Durham NC.
I decided to write this blog as a day by day, week by week,
month by month account of how he does, what the side effects are, and all the
good and ugly in between. I do this
mainly because there aren’t a lot of “real people” stories out there. As a care giver to my husband, I feel kind of
lost and scared about this whole process.
The doctor’s told us what to expect the best they can, after all, they
can only give us numbers and statistics, there are no definitive answers as
each person is so different. But we all
know when it’s your loved one the numbers and statistics don’t mean a thing,
you want that crystal ball that can tell you that he will do well and make a
full recovery. But as far as I know,
they don’t make crystal balls.
I am hoping that this blog will be informative, useful,
insightful, maybe a little silly as I love to laugh, and most of all it may
help to put others minds at ease and to empower others with the knowledge that
I will learn and pass on to you. I hope
you don’t need to be empowered, but if you do, I hope this blog can help you in
some way.
Thanks for reading
Thank you for doing this. Info on the day to day process is gar and few between. Wish you much success my friend!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I hope the information is useful.
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